E 'know that these guys are driven more by the heart from the head. Often they turn to us to be comforted in their decisions dictated primarily by instinct. Sometimes it seems absurd that submit applications for them have a meaning, but which are beyond our reasoning, and others, however, perched over the futility of aback.
A prevailing current of thought that leads from the Nobel Prize in neuroscience, Eric Kandel, turn back the clock of empirical knowledge, argues that many productions that have left a tangible sign were designed more than by reason, by mechanisms that go with emotion. This is evident in the artists, the romantic, the painters who, according to Kandel, testify to the limits of reason.
scholar with a long series of examples (which does not repeat here), shows that the emotional part of the brain is much more refined and complete than logical and rational, because it was "beautifully decorated" by the evolution of the last hundreds of thousands of years is what Jung called "emotional intelligence" of our personality and placed in the right hemisphere of the brain, which is complementary to the other hemisphere who chairs the scope of the 'rational intelligence. "
As in any review even this coin has two sides. It is, according to Kandel, the reason why we cling to the illusion of rationality. In fact, "when the instinct is wrong, bad wrong, wrong, and this makes us feel betrayed." Only then invoke the right. In other words, if the emotional part is predominant, uncontrollable much more than the logical part that is weak, low-volitional, the latter can easily capitulate under the pressure of an emotional storm.
Taking good for the allegations made by this scholar, we must conclude that when our kids come to us to be comforted in their instinctive actions, it is said to be in error. On the other hand to support any research scientist uses formulas, which in turn were preceded by the intuition!
As is the feeling to drive our kids, rather than abstract thought, it is appropriate that their suggestions should be filtered in the light of reason, but unfortunately it is difficult for us "adults", which is often the illusions we have to leave by road a piece, follow this road for what would be necessary, especially with the right attitude.
For these reasons, I think every parent who lovingly follows the evolutionary process of their child, should strive to understand that it is not always good brakes on their suggestions, which could have justified reasons, but that we might escape. From the attendance at these guys I learned that the instinct to leave and to facilitate spontaneity is the best way to follow their own talent, and then the royal road to happiness. So why not imitate them? Why force their nature? Why encourage them to imitate someone else?
Sometimes, without realizing it, some emotional outbursts may assume also means a call for dialogue and review of its thought, therefore, do not accept their spontaneity, especially in the case of an only child, can cause disturbance in their emotional balance to induce manic behaviors.
Pugliarello Francis from "The mirror hidden ..."
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